Private Investigator Tools - Looking For Behavioral Abnormalities in Your Spouse?

Suppose a wife has been married for several years.  Suddenly, her husband starts working out by lifting weights, doing cardio, and refraining from eating fatty foods.  His biceps are bulking up as well as his abs.  Should she be happy or suspicious in his behavioral change?  If she does not have the body of a model, then whom is her husband showering with attention?

Most men and women make a conscious effort to improve their body image when a new object of affection shows up in their life.  They usually go on a diet program and manage to stick with it.  Their waistline shrinks, and they splurge on new clothing.

The behavioral changes of a man are not as subtle as that of a woman.He not only is trimming the waistline and bulking up the biceps, he is working longer shifts at the office and wearing cologne more often than he normally does.  He tends to avoid his wife and shows less affection toward her.

On the flipside, a woman is often happier because somebody is showering her with attention.  She is told that she is attractive and feels more desirable.  She feels more content with herself because she is slimming down and improving her self-image.

Both men and women who are having extramarital relationships will have down times in their days or evenings when they fail to answer their cell phone or return a page.  If they do converse during those times, they will be brief in their conversation and evasive as to their current location.  For instance, if a man may tell his wife that he has to stay an extra three hours at the office when really he is having dinner with his lover at a posh restaurant.

None of these behavioral changes are indicative of a cheating spouse.  However, if this kind of behavior persists, just make a note of it for future reference in case he really is having an affair.